Midlife rarely changes one thing at a time. Hormones shift, bodies become less predictable, relationships alter and the future starts asking questions we had been quite happily avoiding.

Thrive After Fifty is here to make some of that easier to understand and a little less overwhelming to deal with. You’ll find honest experiences from women living through it, clear information without the scare stories, and practical ways to take the next step.

Nobody has everything worked out. Some of us have simply become better at looking as though we know why we walked into the room.

I want to feel understood

I’m ready to do something

New to menopause, or wondering whether it’s perimenopause?
If your body and mind have begun behaving in ways nobody cleared with you first, start with a clear guide to what may be happening and where to find reliable support.

Nobody Told Me Menopause Could Change My Relationship

I created Thrive because midlife turned out to be about far more than hot flushes and periods stopping. It can affect our health, relationships, confidence, finances and sense of what comes next, and these things rarely have the courtesy to arrive one at a time.

This is the kind of place I wanted when I began trying to make sense of it all: honest about the difficult parts, interested in the possibilities and useful enough to help with whatever needs dealing with next. I’m not here as a guru with a perfectly arranged life. I’m a woman in midlife working it out too, usually with several browser tabs open and a cup of tea I have forgotten to drink.

If something you find here helps you understand what you are feeling, begin a conversation or take one manageable step forward, then Thrive is doing what I created it to do.

You cannot make useful decisions with numbers you are avoiding.

The free Money Without the Panic Planner gives you one calm place to record what you have, what you owe and what your future may need. No judgement, complicated spreadsheets or expectation that you suddenly develop an enthusiasm for pensions.